For x>0, the event {X>x} has probability P{X>x}=1−FX(x)=e−λx>0. Hence,
E[X∣X>x]=E[XI{X>x}]P{X>x},
but
E[XI{X>x}]=∫∞xtλe−λtdt=(∗)
(using Feynman's trick, vindicated by the Dominated Convergence Theorem, because it is fun)
(∗)=−λ∫∞xddλ(e−λt)dt=−λddλ∫∞xe−λtdt
=−λddλ(1λ∫∞xλe−λtdt)=−λddλ(1λ(1−FX(x)))
=−λddλ(e−λxλ)=(1λ+x)e−λx,
which gives the desired result
E[X∣X>x]=1λ+x=E[X]+x.